Mr. Small

Mr. Small.

If it is Mr. Big is perfect for a woman than his opposite is Mr. Small. And what may be worse than having your heart broken by him, may be watching your friend have her heart broken by him. Having a friend whom is involved with a jerk boyfriend must be one of lives worst features. Not only are you forced to deal with the fact your friend is being treated like shit but you must also recognize she is allowing it to happen.

We’ve all been here. He isn’t simply the boyfriend you can’t stand or the guy that loves her but acts up. This guy is ALL bad. The only thing he does have, is game. He some how keeps her coming back. This is particularly hard because as a friend you must do everything in your power not to judge and to keep your mouth shut. It can become increasingly hard as you are trying to be there for your friend at the same time you want to scream at her. This man has complete control and when she finally does come to the conclusion that this man is bad for her, he switches the game up.

At this point as a friend you may be over it. It is draining and you are disgusted with the fact that you hate him. Yes, you are completely aware that she goes along with it, but this is your friend. As much pain as she has put her-self thru it is at his discretion when it is dealt. Now for you, this may be hard to understand, for many women the thought of being this wrapped around a man is hard to imagine, to others it is all too familiar. But as hard as this may be you have to be there for your friend. Because there is absolutely no way she will get through it without you. No matter how stupid she is acting, you have to listen. It is you duty as a friend. She would do it for you and you have to let her complain at midnight, be there for her while she bitches for hours and you must give her a shoulder to cry on.

And if you have abandoned her, apologize. Don’t apologize for having an opinion or for telling her how it is, but apologize for not being there. As crazy as she may have acted, that’s your crazy friend, so take care of her so that one day she will never let this happen again.

Because in the grand scheme of things, their time together will be small compared to her life. Their relationship will seem small to what she will experience. He will be just a small part of who she becomes. He will not become the reason for her strength . . . he will be nothing more than a small spark that helped start the fire of her strength. He is just small.

And as dumb as she may have been for putting up with his dumb ass the only one dumber than both of them is his new girlfriend.

And let me apologize for not being there.